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I want a box full of beautiful-gorgeous-awesome-kick-ass RINGS for my 18th birthday!Th above photo is just th way I picture it to be!

LUST FOR RINGS! OH MY GUCCI!!

First thing first.Allow me to congratulate two woman who won BIG at the 52nd Annual Grammy Award this year!Of course,its non other than th sweet country singer,Taylor Swift and the ever so hawt RnB queen,Beyonce!

Taylor Swift took home the top prize with the Album of the Year award for Fearless. "I just hope that you know how much this means to me," said the 20-year-old,who became the youngest artist to win the award at the age of 20.Taylor Swift won four Grammys this year.

Beyonce, who brought the house down with a cover of Alanis Morissette's 'You Oughta Know,' took home the Song of the Year prize for 'Single Ladies' (Put a Ring on It) and ended the night with six Grammys,the most won by a woman at a single ceremony.The other 5 categories that she won are;

• Best Female Pop Vocal Performance
• Best Contemporary R&B Album
• Best Female R&B Vocal Performance
• Best Traditional R&B Vocal Performance
• Best R&B Song

Congratulations ONCE AGAIN to Taylor Swift and Beyonce!Oh btw,did you guys saw what Lady Gaga wore during the Grammys?all 3 outfits that she wore are SUPER bizarre!

What have you got to say about this?

Whether the break up was a complete shock or a silent one,chances are you are now left feeling less-than-great about it.And maybe you’re harboring some pretty strange thoughts.Like, Am I not good enough for him? Or, Should I give up all this and just move to Australia?I cnt face her anymore.

After th break up,some girls OR even guys,are too caught up in emotional pain that they can't even think straight.So here's some guide about th Do's and Dont's for surviving a break up.

The Dont's:

1. DON’T CALL HIM/HER

Many people get caught up in this cycle.The relationship is over,the person you love hasn’t called and its driving you absolutely crazy and…you are just dying to call them.Don’t give into this because it will not lead to the outcome you’re looking for.the situation might get worse.And it will only make it more painful fro you.Call anyone else, just DON’T CALL HIM/HER.

2. DON’T SEE HIM/HER JUST ONE MORE TIME

Seeing them just one more time will only put you back to square one and who wants to prolong the agony?Its painful ENOUGH to say goodbye to someone you love and its going to be even more painful to do it over and over again.You are going to have to get over it anyway,why not do it sooner rather than later?

3. DON’T SECOND-GUESS YOURSELF

Its not like you woke up one day and said, “I’m so happy,I think I’ll end it.” Its over for a reason.If you ended it,my guess is that you had your reasons.Don’t let them try to entice you back with promises of how much they’ll change.typically,these promises are short lived.

4. DON’T WALLOW IN IT FOR TOO LONG

There is a certain amount of time that is necessary to mourn the loss of someone we love.It is a process that you must go through to get to the other side.But,whenever this time lasts longer than normal,you may find yourself wallowing in self pity and that will not only make you feel worse,it will also prolong your healing.

5. DON’T THINK HE/SHE WILL CHANGE

What you see is what you’ve always gotten and what you will continue to get.Many people make the mistake of believing they can change someone.The only person you can change is yourself.So when you think you can change them,think again.

The Do's:

6. LET IT ALL OUT AND LET IT GO

Don’t feel bad for feeling bad.You have to mourn your loss.Its only natural.So,make sure you let it ALL out,so you can let it go.Do your crying now so you can dry your tears for when the real Mr./Mrs. Right do comes along.

7. STAY BUSY

At first you may not feel like it,but after the initial shock wears off start looking for things to keep you busy.Now is the time to call in the troops; your friends,family etc. Do something,do just about anything,just keep moving on.

8. LOOK FORWARD AND LEAVE THE PAST BEHIND

Just because your relationship is over doesn’t mean your life is over too.Decide what you want your future to be like and then stay focused on it,not the past. Sometimes things just don’t work out the way we want them to be.Let go of what was and look forward to what can be.Afterall,we are all supposed to learn from the past and live the future.

9. BE GOOD TO YOURSELF

Do NOT torture yourself.Don't starve yourself,don't cry your eyes out every single day and shut yourself up in your room.You may want to beat yourself up over what went wrong or wonder what would’ve happened if you had done things differently.Now is not the time to be hard on yourself.Treat yourself,pamper yourself and just take a little extra care of yourself.You’ll be glad you did.

10. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AGAIN,BELIEVE IN YOUR FUTURE AND KNOW THAT YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS!

Don’t do things that will make you feel bad,do what will help you to heal your broken heart.By all means,go out and have fun.Buy that tub of ice cream and sing your lungs out to the new hits thats playing on the radio.You are the ONLY one who can make a difference.Decide to put the past behind you and move on.Remember,we get what we expect.Begin today and expect the best.Live your life knowing that everything is going to work out and it will!

Just this afternoon,I  was bored and I decided to check out Stomp.sg I went to th Singapore Seen column and to my shock and horror plus ABSOLUTE DISBELIEF,I found out abt a Polytechnic girl who post up semi-nude picts of herself on the net.

For those of you who are curious and badly want to know what Im talking about,you may Google this up.

Honestly,when I first saw th picts of her and her exposed chest area,my jaw dropped.Not literally,it REALLY dropped!Because firstly,she's a girl.And judging by her pict,she looks like a MALAY girl.As we all know,such behaviours are considered as SIN in our religion.Posting up picts of yourself exposing your private areas to the internet world.You're nowhere different as th prostitutes at Geylang.

2ndly,you're a POLYTECHNIC student.mind you,POLYTECHNIC student!Yet you behave like you don't go to school at all.And now,because of this incident,people start to judge your school.It doesnt only affect you bt it also affects your SCHOOL.Because of you,ppl are now going to be judgemental against your school.

Seriously,th Malay teenagers are getting out of hands nowadays.Yang Salleh nk jdi Sally,yang pompan plak tk respect maruah diri. what is seriously wrong with you guys?Im not condemning my own race bt its a fact.Take a look outside,th ones who push baby strollers at such a young age,th ones who got featured in newspaper for loan shark activities,th ones with tattoos on their body,smoking and cursing infront of their children..who are they? MALAYS.

Im not saying this is how you should judge th Malays because some Malays also do us proud by getting into a University even though they had family problems and all.And I respect this kind of ppl.Its just that I think we need to stop all this alrd.day by day,we're drifting further and further away.Im nt gona lie,be a total hypocrite and say that Im a good Muslimah who prays 5 times a day because honestly,Im nt.But atleast,I knw my religion and I have morals!

All and all,this entry is just to share with you readers about what I think.Don't like it,its okay.Im nt even forcing you to like it or hate it.This is where I write and express myself.Read OR leave.

7. How Flirty is She?

A lot of women like to flirt.Not to leave out men,of course.Its just something that we all do,especially those who are single.

Now before we go flipping the jealously switch and being super alert,remember that there is a very clear line and a world of difference between being social and being flirty. You must be very careful not to confuse the two.Lets say you are at a gathering with your girlfriend,for example.If she's just being social,she’s probably out talking to lots of people.In general just meeting people and mingling.Whether she talks to mostly guys or mostly girls,there is nothing wrong with this.

The things you should look for is if she is focusing on JUST one guy.See if she allows herself to get isolated by the guy,if she is constantly getting closer and having body contact with the guy..There are many more signs of over-flirting that can take place,but the point is whenever you see it happening just ask yourself the following questions:

• Is she like that with most people?
• If she’s not like that with most people,how much is she touching him? (Above all things else,at any other social venture where you can observe the flirting, this is usually the key to tell how far she might let the flirting go in any situation)

6. She has very little will power

The worst part is that no matter how much she actually loves you or cares about you,if she has very little will power she is going to eventually cheat on you. She may probably feel bad about it too,but people who get cheated on don’t really seem to have great sympathy for someone who says they feel bad after doing something that probably felt great.

She may have an amazing heart,but if her mental strength is low in certain situations she’ll just give in to any guys advances.Its like a drug addict or a fat person. They may not want to take the drug or over-eat because they know what it’s doing to them,but they have not developed the will power to resist urges.All it takes is some guy (usually an ex-lover or a “friend”) rubbing them the right way and they give in to their body and urges just like that despite what they may feel afterwards.

You can tell how weak her will power is by observing:

• How in shape is she? /How well does she eat? (Women with high levels of will power and discipline tend to take good care of themselves.)
• How together is her life? (Obviously if her life is a mess,chances are other parts of her personality are a mess as well)

5. She is very naive/gullible

Some women have a very high will power.But some of them are so ditzy that they can’t even tell when a man is hitting on them or spitting bullshit game on them.If someone told them the guy talking to her was Brad Pitt she might actually believe it.If you believe your woman has a weak mental awareness and is very naive about the world, ask yourself the following questions:

• Is she easy to play jokes on? (A sense of humor is awesome,but falling for practical joke after practical joke indicates a weak ability to catch on to the reality of a situation)
• Is she clueless to when guys are hitting on her?
  

4. Her belief structure

A  person who has never committed a crime will have a hard time doing armed robbery.But someone who has done armed robbery before probably won’t have to make much of a jump to kill someone.

If your woman thinks it’s cool to give her number,cuddle with guys or even go out on dates,then its not going to be that big of a stretch for her to take it to the next level.That is,to cheat on you.But in defense of your woman,if you get into a serious relationship with a women who has this type of logic then you probably are asking to be cheated on.If you think your woman has a weak belief structure, ask yourself the following questions:

• Does she have different ideas about how relationships should go? (Once again,not a crime,but be prepared if she expects one thing from you but does something entirely different herself.)
• Does she do things blatantly in front of you like give out her number to guys in a suggestive manner? (If she makes no attempts to hide such behavior, then she really doesn’t see the harm and has a higher threshold for what’s acceptable than you do.)

3. She Doesn’t Respect You

Many guys deal with their girls or wives being incredibly disrespectful to them. Even more sadly, most times they just write it off as them being frustrated or angry. There is a clear and definite line between anger and disrespect.

The basic difference lies in how she deals with things that you do,versus things that are a part of you.For example,she disagrees with your opinions or your lifestyle choices..she might get angry, but she won’t belittle you in any type of way.Disrespect,on the other hand is often full of harsh attacks on your character,intelligence and life direction.

Also,respect can fluctuate over time.One part of her respecting you is her natural temperament towards you,but another part is how much respect you inspire her to give to you.Respect,like all things worth having,is earned.Just because you’re living with her,or she says she loves you,doesn’t mean its a guarantee. To see how much your woman respects you,ask yourself the following questions:

• Does she still do what she wants regardless of your opinion about it? (If yes,then she is giving your existence and commitment in the relationship no weight.She doesnt even take your opinion into consideration.)
• Does she regularly lash out at you regardless of your feelings?
• Are you consistent,driven and focused in your life,accomplishing things and being a man that actually deserves respect? (If you don’t respect yourself,or command respect of others around you,then your woman probably does not respect you either)

2. Her thoughts about cheating

A lot of girls cheat because they think that guys are going to cheat on them anyway, so they just do it. There are a lot of crazy things that a person can think,but you cannot ever expect them to ever tell you if they are cheating on you or they think its ok. Asking that question is a waste of time unless you are searching for emotional responses and body language clues.

Ask yourself the following questions:

• Has she cheated on someone before?
• Do her friends cheat? (We often have friends that are of similar morals.If you know she has lots of friends that cheat on their boyfriends,then there is a possible chance that she will too.)

1. How much value do you have to her as a man?

Afterall,it all nails down to this.I mean,if she values you enough as a man she won't even think about cheating on you!

1) If you held up 11 roses infront of a mirror,you’d be looking at 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.

Honestly,I had this stewpit smile on my face th moment I read this.It might be cheesy bt on th hand,its so sweet! (:

2) They say a picture tells a thousand words but when I see your picture,all I see is 3 words : I...love...you

Quite typical but to make a girl melt,I think this is enough..

3) How did a guy like me end up with a princess like you?

Hahaha!This one is like awww...I know right baby!

4) I love you more than yesterday but less than tomorrow

It simply means th guy loves you more and more each passing day and I bet ALL girls in this world would want to hear this frm their guys.

5) You are worth waking up for

something I would wana hear frm my guy if I were to call him in th middle of th night while he's sleeping.

6) You're like a dictionary to me because you add meaning to my life.

Mad cheesy bt I love th last part! (:

7) I love you not because of who you are,but who I am when Im with you

Typical.Bt to think of it,when a guy say this to you while he's looking into your eyes... MAN! I'll BE ON CLOUD NINE!!

8) I want to be the best, because you deserve the best.

This is so sweet!When your guy fail at something and you tell him it doesnt matter because atleast he did try his best,and then he say this line..GOSH! I'll prolly tear..

9) I was born to love you

And I was born to love you back..

10) Having you beside me today is better than any gift in the world.

Bliss!